"If you want to build a ship, don't herd people together to collect wood and don't assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea."
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
How are you a leader?
November 5, 2009
Iraq Deployment 2011
WFTDA Head Referee
Leading = People
Good Managersdo things right
Good Leadersdo the right things
Values
Personal values drive commitment
Credibility is the foundation of leadership - Do what you say you will do
As a leader, you are your reputation!
From "Values to Action"
Leadership Steps
Self-Reflection
Balance
True Self-confidence
Genuine humility
What are your values?
(Choose 4 - 6)
Authenticity
Achievement
Adventure
Authority
Autonomy
Balance
Beauty
Boldness
Compassion
Challenge
Citizenship
Community
Competency
Contribution
Creativity
Curiosity
Determination
Fairness
Faith
Fame
Friendships
Fun
Growth
Happiness
Honesty
Humor
Influence
Inner Harmony
Justice
Kindness
Knowledge
Leadership
Learning
Love
Loyalty
Openness
Optimism
Peace
Pleasure
Poise
Popularity
Recognition
Religion
Reputation
Respect
Responsibility
Security
Self-Respect
Service
Spirituality
Stability
Success
Status
Trustworthiness
The Leadership Ladder
Starting out: Not much power or control; clarity
Next: Less about best technician and more about getting things done through other people
Then: Managing the organization and its politics
Finally: At the top, your authority and responsibility are more in balance
Types of Leadership
Authority vs Autonomy | Time vs Ownership
Effective Communication
Leaders persuade each other by sitting down and talking the issues through face-to-face
(Leading Up)
Email Rules
Be BRIEF:
B (Background)
R (Reason)
I (Information)
E (End)
F (Follow-up)
Descriptive Subject line
Would you write a recommendation letter for me?
Be BRIEF (or 5 W's)
Program Director,
I am applying to the Sport Fellowship at this location. I need a recommendation letter written by my Program Director by Friday, Oct 31.
Would you write this for me please?
Thank you,
Matt
Avoid email signatures
Can distract from your message
Providing Negative Feedback
Start the conversation by noting when and where the behavior you want to discuss occurred
Next, describe it in detail, explaining exactly what you saw and heard
Describe your reaction to the behavior
General Meeting Rules Do's
Make the purpose clear; send an agenda ahead of time
Talk to anyone who might monopolize meeting time before you get in the room and ask him to keep comments to a minimum
Send out a follow-up email after the meeting that lists next steps, who's responsible for them, and when they'll get done
General Meeting Rules Do Not's
Feel obliged to invite lots of people - only include those who are critical to making progress
Move on to a new topic until everyone feels they've been heard
Let the group get distracted by tangents - ask if you can address unrelated topics another time
No cell phones – be courteous.
Leadership Vision
A story in 3 parts:
This is where we are
This is where we are going
This is how we are going to get there
(Optional inspirational part) This is your very important role in helping us achieve the vision.
Dealing With Conflict
Change + Uncertainty = Chaos
Leaders make risk safe
When should you decide on conflict?
Use Sun Tsu's advice for choosing battles for conflict:
(Any choice for conflict should pass all 3 tests)
Only fight when:
There is a prize worth fighting for
You know you will win
There is no other way of achieving your goal
How should you behave in conflict?
Stay Calm!
Focus on the outcome
Remain positive
Listen and empathize
Only deal with the issue when the other side is calm and ready to listen
Avoid blame
A Few Tools
SWOT Analysis
Root Cause Analysis
Pareto
SWOT Analysis
Root Cause Analysis
Fishbone Diagram
5 Why's
Ask why
Ask why again
Ask why again
Ask why again
Ask why again
The Lincoln Memorial (5 Why example)
Is over 63 meters wide and over 33 meters high
Statue of Lincoln at it’s center that is over 6 meters high and weighs 175,000 kg
Millions of people visit the memorial each year
Several years ago
National Parks Service had a problem
The stone exterior of the memorial was deteriorating and showing significant signs of wear requiring frequent repainting
The executives asked "Why" to the maintenance crew.
“Because of the high-power sprayers we use to wash the memorial every two weeks.”
“Why are we doing high-powered washings every two weeks?”
“Because of the bird droppings.”
Get rid of the birds?
“Why are there so many birds?”
“The reason the birds come is to feed on the spiders”
Why are there so many spiders?
“Have you ever been to the memorial at night?, there are billions of insects. The spiders come for the buffet.”
Try insecticides?
“Why are there so many insects?”
“The insects are attracted by the high-powered spotlights we shine on the memorial.”
Follow-up questions:
“Why do we shine the lights?”
“So the tourists will come to see the memorial.”
“Why do we want the tourists to come?”
“Because they bring their money and spend it in our city.”
“Is there anything we can do about the lights so that there won’t be so many bugs.”
“Sure, turn the lights on later in the evenings and off earlier in the mornings.”
Final Result from 5 Why's
Less bugs meant less spiders.
Less spiders meant less birds.
Less birds meant less droppings.
Less droppings meant less washings.
Less washings meant less deterioration of the stone on the outside of the memorial.
Pareto Principle
Power Law
Pareto Analysis
Consequences Model
INFLUENCE | MOTIVATE | INSPIRE | PERSUADE
Seek to know your people and try to understand what motivates them
Use that to incentivate the behaviors you need for the success of the organization
Situational Leadership
Willing and Able
Become a better leader
Do not confuse activity with productivity
Be generous with small tokens of appreciation
Be bold in facing the inevitable
Focus on opportunities rather than on problems
Be a good learner
Be principled but not inflexible
Succeed in your career
Focus on the 1 or 2 things where you can make a difference to your firm and yourself
Two questions to help achieve focus:
What am I doing that is relevant to bosses at least two levels above me?
What will I do this year that I will remember in 10 or 20 years time?